Remembering Mr. Lawrence: A life Dedicated to sports, Service and faith

          Some individuals leave an indelible mark on the communities they serve, not through grand gestures but through years of dedication and quiet perseverance.  One such individual was Mr. Sam Jacob Lawrence (My grandfather), a former Kerala State football player who later served the Kerala government, overseeing guest houses and eventually retiring from the cape Hotel in Kanyakumari. Beyond his professional life, he played a key role in the construction of the Kanyakumari CSI Church, leaving behind a legacy of faith and service.

His  great grandparents migrated from Kanchiracode near Marthandam  to Thycaud, Trivandrum.  

Family heritage is a precious thread that connects generations, passing down values, traditions, and faith. The lineage of Mr. Pakianathan who migrated from Kanchiracode to Trivandrum, reflects a strong foundation of love and devotion, shaping the lives of his descendants.

Pakianathan was blessed with a son, P. Samuel, who carried forward his family's legacy with dedication. Samuel’s life was marked by his commitment to family and faith, which he instilled in his children, S. Jacob and S. David.

Among them, S. Jacob became the father of Sam J. Lawrence, ensuring that the family's name and values continued into the next generation. With each passing era, this lineage stands as a testament to resilience, unity, and the blessings of family bonds.

My Grandfather Mr. Sam J. Lawrence  had three brothers Mr. S.L Jacob, Mr. G. W. Jacob and Mr. Justin Jasper.

Mr. Lawerence with his grandson Dr. Suresh Paul

A Passion for Football

Author at the TaTa Finlay tournament 1989

          Lawrence’s early years were marked by his love for football, a sport that has long been a passion in kerala.  As a state-level player, he not only displayed immense skill on the field but also exemplified sportsmanship and teamwork.  Football in Kerala is not just a game; it is a way of life, and Mr. Lawrence was among those who carried its spirit forward. Representing the state team required discipline, rigorous training, and a unwavering commitment-qualities that he carried into every aspect of his life.

  Mr. Lawerence ( sitting )

          While his professional career took him away from the football field, the values he learned from the sport-dedication, resilience, and leadership-stayed with him.

A life in service of the Kerala Government

          After his football career, Mr. Lawrence tool up a government position overseeing guest houses in Kerala. In this role, he ensured that government guests, officials, and visitors were well taken care of, maintaining the highest standards of hospitality.  His Kerala government’s administrative setup.

Mr. Lawrence and  Mrs. Kanaga Bai  lawrence

          Later, he moved to Kanyakumari, where he worked at the Cape Hotel, a well-known establishment in the southernmost tip of India. Kanyakumari, a place of immense natural beauty and cultural significance, attracts thousands of visitors every year. Mr. Lawrence’s role at the hotel allowed him to interact with people from all walks of life, and he carried out his responsibilities with the same integrity and commitment that had defined his career.

The  author remembers seeing Mr. V. V. Giri  the then President of India at Cape hotel in Kanyakumari.    

A man of integrity: Lawrence’s Unwavering Principles

          Lawrence was not just known for his dedication and service but also for his unwavering principles. During his tenure overseeing government minister, heavily intoxicated, sought accommodation in the guest house.  However, Mr. Lawrence, committed to upholding the dignity and decorum of his position, refused permission for the minister to stay.

  Author with grand parents 

          This bold decision, though morally right, had serious consequences.  His refusal angered those in power, leading to his suspension from service.  It was a difficult period, but Mr. Lawrence stood firm in his belief that rules and ethical standards should apply to everyone, regardless of their position.  His act of defiance was not driven by disrespect but by a deep sense of duty and responsibility.

          Though suspended, his reputation for honesty and integrity only grew stronger.  Eventually, justice prevailed, and he was reinstated, earning even greater respect from his colleagues and the public.  This incident defined Lawrence’s character-he was a man who valued principles over personal gain, proving that true service is not just about duty but about standing up what is right, no matter the cost.

A pillar of Faith: Building the CSI Church in Kanaykumari

          Beyond his professional contributions, Mr. Lawrence was deeply involved in his faith.  His most lasting legacy was his instrumental role in building the CSI Church in Kanyakumari.  Churches are more than places of worship-they serve as community centers, bringing people together in faith and fellowship.  Mr. Lawrence’s dedication to the church’s construction was not just about building a structure but about creating a spiritual home for generations to come.

Mr. Justin Jasper,Prof. Edwin paul  and Mr. S.L. Jacob during Mr. Arther Jacob Lawerence’s Wedding 

          His involvement in the church project required determination, leadership, and a deep sense of purpose.  Whether through fundraising, organizing resources, or encouraging the local community to participate, he played a crucial role in making the dream a reality.  The CSI Church in Kanyakumari stands as a testament to his faith and commitment, a place where people can find solace, strength, and guidance.

A life well Lived

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Mr. Winstam Lional Lawrence, Mr. Samson Lawrence, Mr. Arther Lawrence

Mrs. Ida Paul, Mrs. Kanaga Bai Lawrence 

          Mr. Lawrence’s life was one of service-first on the football field, then in his government career, and finally in his faith.  He was man who gave his best in every role he played, touching the lives of many with his humility and dedication.  His contributions to Kerala’s Sports, government services, and church-building efforts remain an inspiration.

          Though he is no longer with us, his legacy lives on in the hearts of those he influenced.  Whether it is the spirit of young footballers in Kerala, the memories of  guests he welcomed, or the prayers said in the church he helped build, Mr. Lawrence’s impact is enduring.  His life reminds us that true greatness lies not just in personal achievements but in the lives we touch and the communities we help build.

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